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You do not have to be a Hollywood star to be stalked. According to The
National Center for Victims of Crime (http://www.ncvc.org/ncvc/Main.aspx),
approximately 1out of 12 women and 1 out of every 45 men will be a
victim of stalking. 77% of the women and approximately 64% of the men
know their stalkers, with approximately 81% of women being stalked by a
current or former partner they had been interment and most have been
physically assaults by that partner.
There is nothing protective, loving, or adorable about a partner, or
spouse, estranged or current, or in recent cases casual acquaintances,
such as an individual, you’ve met at the gym, work, etc. watching and
knowing your every move. This type of behavior is dangerous.
Unfortunately, many women see this kind of behavior as a way the man
show that he is in love with her. This is not love; it is a need to
control individuals around him and all that they do, with many stalkings
resulting in tragedy.
Many times this controlling behavior begins in the relationship. The
individual will control whom you see, speak with, and even what you
wear. The person may even try to limit your time with your friends and
family members, with his soul purpose to be to isolate you from your
friends and family and to make you dependent on him. He may “jokingly”
tell you that you will never leave him. If he becomes physically
violent, his excuse most likely will be, “because you made him.”
Remember you are the victim, not him. If and when you break off the
relationship, this person absolutely will refuse to accept the end of
your relationship and will almost demand to talk with you about it. This
person is unstable and more than likely will become a stalker.
Signs to look for in a stalker: Mysteriously showing up wherever you
are; constantly calling (this includes hang-ups), unexplainable damage
to your home, car, or other property including disappearing pets, using
technology including hidden cameras and GPS (global positioning systems)
to monitor you, threatening to harm you, your family, friends, or pets.
Stalkers will also implore ways to discover personally information about
you through public records, online search services, and private
investigators.
If you are in a forceful and controlling relationship, or are
experiencing any of the above please contact The National Center for
Victims of Crime at 1-800-FYI-CALL
Alert friends, family.
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